being a lady

"Being a woman does not automatically make one a lady." 

since small, i've been a rough kid..a rough girl with a lot of friends among the boys..(so, you can imagine how am i rite?) well, in the school, the boys kept saying "she's the man". Honestly, i felt proud about it... sometimes.. :) i'm strong..erk..don't fell wrong ok? i'm a straight person. *no belok2* I'm A GIRL. it's just i'm a bit boyish..  a bit? haha.. liar.. jalan pun x betul, macam gangster.. so, with new age and a new year.. i would say that i have a new resolution.. it's a bit out of the way i wanna be after a broke up.. day before this, i felt like i want to go on with what i am now.. go on with the boyish thingy ( my mom worried bout it) haha! when i think deeply, sampai bila aku nak jadi mcm ni kan? kasar.. jalan mcm gangster.. hmm.. ok *ttbe sedey..:( bile sebut ni* teringat sumtink..

dulu, bukan main xnk jadi cuz xnak jadi lemah, lembik, mengade..even i'm a girl, but i feel that way.. sbb tu dulu tak ramai kawan ppuan.. haha..=) tp now..xnk da pk cam tu..

elegant, sophisticated and strong young lady *eh2..berangan lagi!*

i'm not beautiful (i still praise to u dear god)..but with this, i think i can feel i'm more beautiful with confidence. Being a lady is about being kind. It is also about choosing to believe the best in others and yourself.

I love how Candice Simpson describes being a lady..(sape die..no idea) :)



Manners, attitudes, appropriate dress and social mores have changed so dramatically that the definition of being a lady has left everyone confused.

A lady by today's definition knows that educating herself in every way possible, from higher education to the common sense manners, empowers her to become a woman of accomplishment and poise. She knows it is not her dress size or the money she possess that brings her satisfaction in life.

A lady knows that beauty and wealth can be fleeting, but her inner character is the measure by which others will ultimately judge her as a person.

Her courtesies, the high esteem in which she holds herself and others, and her sincere words of praise and thoughtfulness will reflect her strong values and place her ahead in the minds and hearts of those who know her. Being thought of as a "lady" may be the one of the highest compliments a woman can receive in her life.




And last of all, no one is born a lady. You have to learn and BECOME one. polite and well-mannered.. hurmm..english..  :) nice.. macam ppuan melayu asli.. equal to english ladies..